Law of LOVE (” .)/

September 18th, 2007

Every person has their own unique way of loving another and yet there are some laws that are Universal. No matter what age, language, color or gender, these laws govern the way we fall in LOVE. They also govern the way we experience LOVE.

Two people can be happily in LOVE, each with a different idea of what LOVE is. Whether they stare ‘into each others eyes’ or ‘out upon the world together’, theirs can be true LOVE if that is the way they choose to experience it.

BUT, the simplest thing such as an unreturned phone call, or a glance in the wrong direction can turn off a potential mate in an instant. It can turn off that thing called LOVE in its earliest stage of blossoming.

So how do I avoid that from happening, you ask? How do I master the Art of LOVE?

It’s simple when you understand THE 5 LAWS OF LOVE. I learn t it along the way as well!!! (“,)/

1. The Law of Attraction
A magnetic force, which draws two people together. Perhaps the heart beats a little faster(Indeed, Huaiti makes my heart pump faster tat day… with the Bailey Cream), the breath catches in the chest, or there are shivers down the spine. In much the same way that a pile of iron filings reacts to a magnet moving over them. Gosh… Those tingles in the heart… Amazing feeling thou.

2. The Law of Connection
When you find yourselves finishing each other’s sentences and/or going “I know what you mean”. You find out things about each other like: you were both a middle child, or you were born in the same year/month or city, you have the same favorite food or enjoy the same hobbies. This type of familiarity creates a connection between two people as if they know each another. It can feel very safe and comfortable. (Very correct! When a couple connects with each other in someway or another, it really improves the relationship… A lot!!! Can’t wait to go Scuba diving together) It is the experience of knowing and loving the soul of another. Yuppy… trust me it a wonderful experience to discovering things abt ur love one!

3. The Law of Acceptance
When you can be totally yourself and feel no judgment. Hmmm… this is abit tough and tricky… Even Mr Nice Temper Guy like me sometime cannot be acceptance! BUT, I am learning and tryin my best to be Understanding. (. “)/

4. The Law of Inspiration
When being with the other person, even thinking of them gives you a sense of wanting to be and do more, to be the best that you can be. (Tat’s rite… I wann to give Huaiti Bebe the BEST! My very BEST! Spending all my time with Huaiti and help in whatever way I can!)

5. The Law of Trust
When you feel completely secure with your partner and do not question their sincerity, because ‘as doubt creeps into a relationship, so LOVE creeps out!’ SO so so… Be completely Honest, a truthful couple share no secret and can talk abt anything under the Sun!

Due to social conditioning and different belief systems each of us has different values for this thing called LOVE. Whatever your values are and whatever LOVE means to you, there is one thing for certain:

“If you experience these 5 things with your significant other and them with you, YOU HAVE A WINNING COMBINATION!” Continue to do better just like me… Constantly upgrading and learning and be the BEST Acha! So people lets Acha Acha Huaiti!




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